Syuhada and Adam gave me a surprise visit today even though they know that deep inside I actually hate surprises (got some very bad experiences with surprises that in the end lead me but to hate any kind of surprises), having said that, I really appreciate what they did… love them for doing things that made me feel good even though in a way I kind of hate things that surprises me. Their surprise visit made me think of the importance of being a friend and what actually makes a friend, a friend.
Alhamdulillah, all my life, I’ve been surrounded by fantastic, fabulous people (though once in a while I came a cross some shitheads, but overall, I’m grateful that Allah loves me and that He always send these wonderful individuals to walk into my life…). Syuhada, Adam, Kush, Kaduk, Ain, Sam, Atah, Abu, Mali, Gem, Zahirah, Khair,Fieza, Juwita, E’en, Deen, Yasseer, Diela, Zafrul, kakak, Abg Ali, Sara, Lina, ya Allah…too many to be list down… I always believe that a friend is a way of Allah sending the message “I Love You, I may not be there physically, but I send this people to you to make you feel loved. And remember, I will always be there even when the people I send to you aren’t there to be with you. You will always be love.” Having this mind setting of believing that each friend is a god-send to me, I try my best to treat them the best that I could…but have I? That’s another question I have to ask my self (and maybe write it down later).
Each friend brings a piece of joy yang Allah taala courierkan along, when they step into our lives, and by right we should be grateful about each and every one of our friends, maybe sometimes, along the way, kita terlupa the reason of kenapa Allah taala kenalkan sahabat itu kepada kita, more often than not, it slip through our head that we aren’t suppose to stab our friends from their back, we aren’t suppose to be fake in front of our friends, and it is our utmost duty to always try to be honest with our friends. Yes, undeniably, that sometimes, we don’t see eyes to eyes with our friends, but that is not a reason for us to tarik muka and gaduh, there’s always time for diplomacy, especially with friends… kiss and make up… friendship should never end… they are god-send to us…
Mungkin sesetengah orang doesn’t believe in everlasting and honest friendship, that’s why perhaps diorang selalu bermuka-muka and tikam dari belakang, (maybe) because they don’t believe that Allah loves them, and that Allah has never been fair to them… maybe some of us has come across these type of people, and please if you’ve just realise that there are some of you friends who are like this, please don’t get angry, please remind your self that these people are emotionally handicap and that it is our duty to help these people to understand the concept and the importance of being a friend.
To my dear dear dearest friends, wherever you are, I would like to apologise if I ever been insensitive (which I believe is most of the time), cant be there to lend my shoulder for you to cry on, and that most of the times, I cant keep myself to always be in touch with you. I apologise for my bad behaviour that you have and had to endure with, my crankiness, my bitchiness, my sometimes-emotionally-immature behaviour et cetera. Hanya Allah yang mampu membalas segala, and I mean it, segala semua memories, jasa you people to me. Insyaallah, I will always pray that Allah sentiasa memberi kamu kesenangan dan kemudahan.
To atah, sam, kush, kaduk, ain,mali, gem, abu, syuhada, adam, khair, fieza, e’en, din, yasseer, diela, juwita, firdaus, firdauz, zahirah, sara, lina, kerwin, Ah Siong, simon, arghh…too many to mention, and you guys that I did not mention your name but you know that you are important to me, thank you…. Thank you…. Thank you…
And before I stop I just want to share a quotation I got from a dear dear dear friend of mine, “idea adalah ilham,ilham adalah hidayah….” (s.abu) hehehehehehe…. See, and you still don’t believe that friends are god-send?!!!
Enough said.
Alhamdulillah, all my life, I’ve been surrounded by fantastic, fabulous people (though once in a while I came a cross some shitheads, but overall, I’m grateful that Allah loves me and that He always send these wonderful individuals to walk into my life…). Syuhada, Adam, Kush, Kaduk, Ain, Sam, Atah, Abu, Mali, Gem, Zahirah, Khair,Fieza, Juwita, E’en, Deen, Yasseer, Diela, Zafrul, kakak, Abg Ali, Sara, Lina, ya Allah…too many to be list down… I always believe that a friend is a way of Allah sending the message “I Love You, I may not be there physically, but I send this people to you to make you feel loved. And remember, I will always be there even when the people I send to you aren’t there to be with you. You will always be love.” Having this mind setting of believing that each friend is a god-send to me, I try my best to treat them the best that I could…but have I? That’s another question I have to ask my self (and maybe write it down later).
Each friend brings a piece of joy yang Allah taala courierkan along, when they step into our lives, and by right we should be grateful about each and every one of our friends, maybe sometimes, along the way, kita terlupa the reason of kenapa Allah taala kenalkan sahabat itu kepada kita, more often than not, it slip through our head that we aren’t suppose to stab our friends from their back, we aren’t suppose to be fake in front of our friends, and it is our utmost duty to always try to be honest with our friends. Yes, undeniably, that sometimes, we don’t see eyes to eyes with our friends, but that is not a reason for us to tarik muka and gaduh, there’s always time for diplomacy, especially with friends… kiss and make up… friendship should never end… they are god-send to us…
Mungkin sesetengah orang doesn’t believe in everlasting and honest friendship, that’s why perhaps diorang selalu bermuka-muka and tikam dari belakang, (maybe) because they don’t believe that Allah loves them, and that Allah has never been fair to them… maybe some of us has come across these type of people, and please if you’ve just realise that there are some of you friends who are like this, please don’t get angry, please remind your self that these people are emotionally handicap and that it is our duty to help these people to understand the concept and the importance of being a friend.
To my dear dear dearest friends, wherever you are, I would like to apologise if I ever been insensitive (which I believe is most of the time), cant be there to lend my shoulder for you to cry on, and that most of the times, I cant keep myself to always be in touch with you. I apologise for my bad behaviour that you have and had to endure with, my crankiness, my bitchiness, my sometimes-emotionally-immature behaviour et cetera. Hanya Allah yang mampu membalas segala, and I mean it, segala semua memories, jasa you people to me. Insyaallah, I will always pray that Allah sentiasa memberi kamu kesenangan dan kemudahan.
To atah, sam, kush, kaduk, ain,mali, gem, abu, syuhada, adam, khair, fieza, e’en, din, yasseer, diela, juwita, firdaus, firdauz, zahirah, sara, lina, kerwin, Ah Siong, simon, arghh…too many to mention, and you guys that I did not mention your name but you know that you are important to me, thank you…. Thank you…. Thank you…
And before I stop I just want to share a quotation I got from a dear dear dear friend of mine, “idea adalah ilham,ilham adalah hidayah….” (s.abu) hehehehehehe…. See, and you still don’t believe that friends are god-send?!!!
Enough said.
2 comments:
ermm..aiman, i have sumthing to tell u.. (cringed a smile,eyes fixed on the floor) err.. tapi ko jgn terkejut tau..(hehehe..those were the days!)
can't be more thankful of tose days u b****ed about me with feeza n khair! ahahah BAM on ur face, now i'm one of ur best pals! hahahaha
God knows how much i appreciate all three of u, 4 putting up so much with me..
Luv..hugs..
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