In the world we live in, we can never run from encountering with the lowliest living people, they are what they are not because their family status but because their personality and attitude towards Allah, people around them, and most of all towards themselves. These hypocrites, multi-face, sugar-coated mouths, kiasu are actually can be describe like the puss that feed on the mucus of the fungus that spores on pigs faeces which helps the nature’s deteriorations.
Kiasu a.k.a busybodies: purpose, causes and way of handling them
This article of mine is actually dedicated to no one in particular, but more of a general study on what is the purpose of life of a kiasu, what causes one to be kiasu and finally the way to handle a real life kiasu. Let’s begin with the most frequent asked question; what is the sole purpose of a kiasu? Well from my study and close observation, kiasu’s sole purpose of living of a kiasu is actually to add up spices in other people’s life as well as making their life seems worth living. This is because they have no purpose of living, how can they have a meaningful purpose when they are very busy pretending in front of everyone, and that includes Allah and themselves? Their sole purpose is to be close to one person and make up stories or collecting dirty secrets about them in the most utterly way the spread it to the world as if they have no dirty laundries in their own closet. They’ll try to take everything form your hand one way or another and try to make sure that you’ll drop dead and never rise again so that they will feel better about themselves. How pathetic is that. I really sincerely pity them for that.
Usually kiasu exist due to their inability of accepting their weaknesses, they can’t accept the fact that there are actually people out there that are better than them. They prefer to live in their own build-up fantasy denial state, and that every encounter with people who are more talented, with better prospect of future or dating or fucking better people than they would actually make them feel threaten. They will never try to improve themselves but will always try to manipulate and finally crush the lives of other. Some times, bad childhood experience or the inability of their family accepting what they are and wanting more form them would also lead them to develop this kiasuism. They are pathetic, lowlife beings that are always looking for ways so that people can accept them. The saddest part of it, they only know how to impressed people with their knowledge of other people dirty secrets. They will never accept their inadequacies even though if they behave well enough, or try another approach towards life, people would actually be glad to befriend them, and finally be honest with them.
Tips for people out there who are encountering these lowlife beings, please don’t hate them or shoo them out of your life, have pity on them. They are unlike us; they are actually severe mentally handicap people. Try to befriend them, make them understand that accepting one’s self-inadequacies is actually not a bad thing. Provide them the love they need so that they don’t feel like a pathetic lowlife smug (even though in reality, they are pathetic lowlife smug). Help them to appreciate the sound of the blue birds sing, the wonderful colours of rainbow, and the warm sunshine. And finally help them to understand the concept of nawaitu, kaedah, aqidah and jujur ikhlas in life. Don’t hate them, cause it is just going to cause more destruction, not to ourselves, but to them. We have to understand that these kiasu actually also caused by their self-destructing behaviour, due to their lack of love on themselves, even though they will never admit that they actually hate themselves to the guts. (How can they admit that, they live in denial remember?)
It may seem that it is an impossible thing to help a kiasu to change, but we have to be optimistic, and always remember the crucial concept of nawaitu, kaedah, aqidah and jujur ikhlas. Always remember even though they are the lowliest lowlife beings there are on earth, there are always room for them to change, and hopefully when they does, the world would become a better place for all of us to live in, together, in harmony.
Enough said.
Kiasu a.k.a busybodies: purpose, causes and way of handling them
This article of mine is actually dedicated to no one in particular, but more of a general study on what is the purpose of life of a kiasu, what causes one to be kiasu and finally the way to handle a real life kiasu. Let’s begin with the most frequent asked question; what is the sole purpose of a kiasu? Well from my study and close observation, kiasu’s sole purpose of living of a kiasu is actually to add up spices in other people’s life as well as making their life seems worth living. This is because they have no purpose of living, how can they have a meaningful purpose when they are very busy pretending in front of everyone, and that includes Allah and themselves? Their sole purpose is to be close to one person and make up stories or collecting dirty secrets about them in the most utterly way the spread it to the world as if they have no dirty laundries in their own closet. They’ll try to take everything form your hand one way or another and try to make sure that you’ll drop dead and never rise again so that they will feel better about themselves. How pathetic is that. I really sincerely pity them for that.
Usually kiasu exist due to their inability of accepting their weaknesses, they can’t accept the fact that there are actually people out there that are better than them. They prefer to live in their own build-up fantasy denial state, and that every encounter with people who are more talented, with better prospect of future or dating or fucking better people than they would actually make them feel threaten. They will never try to improve themselves but will always try to manipulate and finally crush the lives of other. Some times, bad childhood experience or the inability of their family accepting what they are and wanting more form them would also lead them to develop this kiasuism. They are pathetic, lowlife beings that are always looking for ways so that people can accept them. The saddest part of it, they only know how to impressed people with their knowledge of other people dirty secrets. They will never accept their inadequacies even though if they behave well enough, or try another approach towards life, people would actually be glad to befriend them, and finally be honest with them.
Tips for people out there who are encountering these lowlife beings, please don’t hate them or shoo them out of your life, have pity on them. They are unlike us; they are actually severe mentally handicap people. Try to befriend them, make them understand that accepting one’s self-inadequacies is actually not a bad thing. Provide them the love they need so that they don’t feel like a pathetic lowlife smug (even though in reality, they are pathetic lowlife smug). Help them to appreciate the sound of the blue birds sing, the wonderful colours of rainbow, and the warm sunshine. And finally help them to understand the concept of nawaitu, kaedah, aqidah and jujur ikhlas in life. Don’t hate them, cause it is just going to cause more destruction, not to ourselves, but to them. We have to understand that these kiasu actually also caused by their self-destructing behaviour, due to their lack of love on themselves, even though they will never admit that they actually hate themselves to the guts. (How can they admit that, they live in denial remember?)
It may seem that it is an impossible thing to help a kiasu to change, but we have to be optimistic, and always remember the crucial concept of nawaitu, kaedah, aqidah and jujur ikhlas. Always remember even though they are the lowliest lowlife beings there are on earth, there are always room for them to change, and hopefully when they does, the world would become a better place for all of us to live in, together, in harmony.
Enough said.
